Hey guys, big hug to all of you, I'm leaving for the same reason.
I actually already left quite a while ago, no idea if anyone noticed, but I just faded away.
I found myself visiting this board less and less, and when I did, I was feeling the more uneasy about what I read.
Juliette is right, way too much gossip, especially lately.
I want anyone to know I mean well, and that I'm not attacking messages in general, or members, because everyone has their own right to post whatever they want. I don't look down on it or anything.
People DEMANDING way too much about getting to know facts about Jim that really, really in the end, do not matter, and are quite frankly none of our business.
I feel like a lot of people here are treating Jim like an animal in a circus cage, people can make their own opinion on weither they do or not and see if they are fine with that.
I know I'm not.
I love Jim, a ton. And therefore, I'm leaving this board. Because I wish him to be treated humanly, and being treated like the celeb he is, is not humanly and I don't want to be part of that, I don't want to treat him that way. It's just a choice I make.
I feel there is also not enough space for the members here sharing how they feel themselfs about *other* things than Jim. Everything has to be linked back to him, and I feel that's not always neccecary and a pity.
We are breathing living human beings with a life of our own. And since we have the same interests, it would be nice to have a platform to share that. This, so far, isn't it. It's nobodies fault, it just started to live its own life, I think. Out of our control.
I wanted to dissapear without any announcement, but now Juliette did, I'll say bye to all of you too. Might be a lot nicer of me, now wouldn't it? (For the ones that do want to reach me, I'm very easely tracked down on the net
http://www.soiledmypants.com.
I'm off, in silence. A big hug to you all.